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And I went down to chicano city park and washed the blues away

Back to that wholesome family-oriented post.

Some of you may be wondering why I suddenly asked you all about the improv posts.  Well, I had a number of things gel for me during our vacation that spurred the question.  The gelling wasn’t focused on blogging, per se, but this blog has ended up being, by the usual cascading effect of life, one of the symptoms of my (healthy or diseased) world. 

If anyone is thinking I’m going to change the direction of this blog, I’m not.  It’s more that I noticed the blog has changed direction on it’s own over time, which should be expected and completely natural.  However, I’ve noticed changes especially in the last year.  Even though I scatter my posts with general goofiness, my writing still tends to reflect my overall mood of what’s going on in life.  Honestly, the last six months + have been really stressful for me and at times depressing.  When I feel stressed and depressed it is very hard for me to write (besides venting), and I felt myself struggling with the blog. 

Because, frankly I was struggling with things in life.

In late June we finally got an initial professional assessment completed for Chance, and after some visits and finishing all the forms, the response back was, “Well, I’m not going to say he has ADHD… but I’m not going to say he doesn’t have ADHD.  Come back in six months.”  Even though we got quite a few helpful recommendations, including one to do counseling that would focus parenting techniques for Chance, I felt like I was in same place I had been six months ago.  Oh, and I got another suggested book to read.

So I took a break.  I was tired of thinking and worrying about it all.  Of planning contingencies all the time.  Of trying to get pregnant (though I’m making my peace with that).  Of feeling guilty because I wasn’t getting more done because I felt too stressed/tired to get anything done.  Our at home vacation was already planned and I just let everything else drop.  Usually when Keen takes time off just to be at home, I’m still working, but we didn’t do that this time.

Keen took the week of July 4th off and I cleared my schedule completely. We had no day-to-day inconveniences to take care of, such as sudden plumbing problems.   Instead we did family outings or lazily watched movies.  I did some gardening (because I find it relaxing).  We played in the sprinklers.  The heat and wildfire smoke cleared out briefly so we had some beautiful days.  On July 4th our neighborhood organized a parade and festival, bringing back a historic tradition for this area.  It was lots of fun. A true old-fashioned parade, with classic cars and kids riding their bikes, a bunch of local organizations and businesses with floats, the high school marching band, everyone waving flags.  And at the festival there was lots of socializing, lots of eating.  Then in the evening we sat on our front porch and watched the only-partially-obstructed view of the city show, and the completely unobstructed view of our neighbors shooting off illegal fireworks in the street.  (I love our neighborhood.)

That week became, truly, a vacation.  I felt much more relaxed than I have in a long time.  We did a lot of activities and, except for a few minor irritations (a.k.a. unnamed older relatives), we enjoyed ourselves as a family.

Over our vacation, I was also reading back through some early posts and I just liked the tone of what I was writing better back then.  Those posts felt happier, more carefree.  Sometimes a bit off the wall, but I like that.  More productively creative, because I do a lot of writing outside of this blog (which I haven’t done lately!). 

I want to get back to that state of mind.  For this blog, for my mental health.  I want the sense of vacation to have a bigger part of my life, even while I’m working.  And one of the ways for me to do that is to write those improv posts.  It’s kind of a reversed creative exercise… usually in writing workshops, when you get stuck they say, “draw from life!” - but instead of always drawing from life, sometimes you can write silly, carefree pieces that have nothing to do with anything, and those in turn help you deal a little better with actual life.  It’s not as if the problems are going to go away, but it’s a small way to detox and unstick the problems.  (We all have our methods.)

Maybe I should start first but not using so many mixed metaphors, eh?

          - the weirdgirl

Comments

VegasDad

Glad to hear your at-home vacation was so therapuetic. It sounds like it was fun too. We went our of town (country) for ours. It was too hot to stay in Vegas for a staycation. I'm look forward to reading your new stuff.

foradifferentkindofgirl

I think I need one of those at home vacations to help me clear my mind. I'm afraid, though, the unclear environment around my house and that makes me insane.

I'm glad you found this feeling to cull from. It's interesting to see how a blog evolves. I know when I started nearly two years ago, I had so many other thoughts in mind and think I was a lot more focused. Focus is a huge thing I need to find again, in many areas.

Like this rambly comment. I'll just say I'm glad I stumbled here, and I look forward to what you create!

Evyl

Smile and the world smiles with you. Although it's corny, It works for me. Hopefully it will for you.

Summer

I don't know if I cold do a "stay at home vacation". The mess around my house would ake me want to spend it cleaning!
I was told by 2 different doctors my daughter most likely had ADHD. She was too young to fully diagnose at the time so I decided to look at some alternative solutions. I found an alternative medicine pediatrician to take them to and her views on it were refreshing. She says a large part of it can be controlled/prevented by diet. There's a huge list of foods and spices not to feed them and a huge list of foods you should make a big part of their diet. Just something you may want to look into for him.

Chag

Please send me the name of your travel agent. I need a vacation like that!

Jeanne

Sometimes we're bright and perky, sometimes we're down. I'm just glad that you are the multifaceted Weirdgirl.

If you can figure a way to bring the mentality of vacation to the everyday, please share.

Oh, and ... la la la ...shame on you...

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